Hi, I'm Kristin. 

Ahhhh, hurray - you've found me!! I'm delighted to welcome you to this site, and share a bit more about myself with you. 

As a trauma-informed coach with 4 certifications in different coaching modalities, I love helping people experience WILDER INTIMACY and LIVE and LOVE DIFFERENTLY.  If you are looking for a masterful guide for rapid and powerful transformation, spiritual evolution and ecstatic living, I might just be your person!

I love using my intuition and skills to help people break through barriers, and my greatest joy is seeing ‘a-ha!’ breakthrough moments with my clients. I believe in the power of connection and community, and that true change requires courage, consistency, and compassion. I've coached for over a decade: first as a birth doula, standing at women's sides and holding their hands as they birth new life... as a Life Coach with OOLA Life Coaching Network, helping people live differently by finding balance in the 7 key areas of life, as an Advisory Coach, mentoring new life coaches, and as a sex and intimacy coach with the Erotic Blueprints, developed by Jaiya, Inc.

As a ShapeShifter Type™, I fluently ‘speak’ all Erotic Blueprints. I don’t know everything, but I have been through a lot and I am willing to be an open book to share my vulnerable experiences with you, hold your hand through the process, and cheer you on every step of the way.

My own lived experience of healing after divorce, complex PTSD, post-concussive syndrome, and abuse gives me a deep capacity for empathy and understanding. I live in the gorgeous high-desert of Bend, Oregon, and am devoted to my two teenage children and our gigantic ginger cat, Angus. I have a deep and abiding affection for snickerdoodle cookies, farmer’s markets, and the smell of a well-written book. 

My personal stories of releasing unhealthy relationships and finding peace and faith on the other side of toxic religion have been featured in two books: The International New York Times bestseller, “Oola for Women” and “Hope: Tethered to an Unwavering God.” 
I am especially passionate about serving:

♥ Christians and other religiously-influenced people who desire to bring more variety, fulfillment, and excitement to their marriage.  I have a soft spot for people who have experienced repressive, oppressive religion, purity culture, sexual shame, guilt, or pain, who desire to truly enjoy the sexual pleasure that is their God-given birthright.  (I have coached clients from a variety of backgrounds, including Orthodox Jewish couples, rabbis, evangelical Christians, Catholics, and LDS). 

♥ Singles who want to become more embodied and confident, and heal their relationship with themselves to be more prepared and equipped for dating and partnership. 

♥ Couples who have differences, challenges, and longings, and want to deepen their intimacy and connection.

♥ People whose partner isn't open to relationship or sex coaching, and needs a compassionate ear and healing for their own erotic selves.


Women, Men, & Couples, Monogamy, Marriage, Divorce, Dating, Christians, Religious Shame, Trauma, Body Image, Conscious Kink, Boundaries, Consent.

">Curious to learn what inspires my passion to help people? 
(Hear my story of being raised in the conservative church movement known as the 2x2s. 
Check out the golden nuggets of wisdom in the final 20 minutes about my current coaching practice.)

  • Erotic Blueprints™ Sexuality Coach
  • OOLA Life Coach
  • OOLA Green Gap Finance Coach 
  • OOLA Advisory Coach 
  • Accelerated Evolution Coach, Warrior Sage Academy
Former Certifications: 
  • Leadership Coach with Building Up Leaders 
  • DONA-Certified Birth Doula 
  • Certified Hypnotist 
  • Hypnobabies Childbirth Hypnosis Educator

Are you ready to change your life?

Copyright Kristin Warnaca